Basic Dating Tips For Women

 It’s a world of equality out there and that applies as much to dating as anything else.  For any date to be successful and lead on to a meaningful relationship, women have to work as hard as men and take responsibility for doing and saying the right things; so here are a few basic dating tips for women – there’s a lot more to dating, but these should help you to get on the right path.  The first thing to remember is that everyone has baggage and letting your unhappy past dating experiences affect your mood and attitude on your current date will drive the man away – the past is not his fault.  And even if the past does not affect your mood, do not let yourself speak badly about your exes – no man wants to hear about what losers men are and your current date will also wonder if he will be spoken of in the same way if things do not work out, even if it’s not his fault.

 Keep your personal problems to yourself, at least in the beginning – men have a set concept of what is romantic and what is not and talking about your stomach problems or how you can’t use public restrooms will destroy any chance of his viewing you as the object of his affections.  While many books on dating tips for women will tell you how important it is to be open and honest, keep in mind that there is a time to admit to your personal flaws and irritating habits – but the first few dates are not those times.  Never get high on booze – slurring away and talking nonsense is not in the least romantic.  And should you get drunk, you will be in no position to watch his behavior for things you like and also dislike; and even worse, if you can’t recall how you behaved, how will you know what you may have let yourself in for?

 Pauses in the conversation are natural and you do not have to force yourself to fill up every gap, use the pauses to observe his body language and look for small thing you may have missed before – and silence can be very sexy.  While it is fine for a woman to make the first move towards setting up a date, do not let a man think you are chasing him – it frightens them as they feel they are not in control and also threatens their macho image of themselves.